Marriage Advice

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Marriage Advice
1. WHEN GETTING MARRIED.  Don't just look for a wife, but look for a mother for our children.  Don't just look for a husband, but find a father for our children.  
2. WHEN APPLYING.  You are not asking the girl's parents/guardians, but asking Allah through the girl's parents/guardians.  
3. WHEN THE MARRIAGE CONTRACT.  You two are not married in front of the penghulu, but married before Allah SWT.  
4. WHEN THE WEDDING RECEPTION.  Record and count all the guests who come to pray for you, because you have to think about inviting them all and apologize, if you are thinking of divorcing for wasting their prayers.

5. SINCE THE FIRST NIGHT.  Be grateful and be patient.  You are a pair of human children and a pair of angels. 
 6. DURING FAMILY LIFE.  Realize that the road to be traversed is not through a flower-strewn road, but also a bush full of thistles and 
7.  They let go of each other's hands, but the secret was holding hands even tighter.  WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE CHILDREN.  
8. Love your wife or husband 100%.  
9. WHEN HAVING THINKING Don't share your love with your husband/wife and children, but love your wife or husband 100% and love each of your children 100%.

10. WHEN THE FAMILY ECONOMY IS NOT IMPROVING.  Rest assured that the door of rizki will be wide open in direct proportion to the level of obedience of husband and wife.  
11. WHEN THE ECONOMY IS IMPROVING.  Do not be the service of a life partner who is faithful to accompany us during suffering.  
12. WHEN YOU WAS A HUSBAND.  It's okay to be pampered to your wife, but don't forget to get up responsibly if your wife needs your help.  
13. WHEN YOU ARE THE WIFE.  Keep walking gracefully and gently, but always manage to get all the work done.  
14. WHEN EDUCATION CHILDREN.  Never think that parents Good parents are parents who are never angry with their children, because good parents are parents who are honest with their children. 
 15. WHEN THE CHILD IS IN PROBLEM.  Rest assured that there is no child who does not want to cooperate with his parents, there are only children who feel that their parents are not listening.  
16. WHEN THERE'S ANOTHER DREAM MAN.  Do not drink, suffice husband as a drug.
  17. WHEN THERE'S ANOTHER DREAM WOMAN.  Do not be obeyed, the wife is enough as a port of the heart.  
18. WHEN CHOOSE A FAMILY PORTRAIT.  Choose a school family portrait that is in the process of growing towards a happy family portrait.
19. WHEN YOU WANT TO LIVE AND HARMONY Use formula 
1. Piety.  
2. Affection.  
3. Loyalty. 
 4. Dialogic communication.  
5. Openness.  
6. Honesty.  
7. Patience.  Barakallahufiikum... Ya Rabb, give us the best life companion from Your side, 
a companion who becomes a friend in religious affairs, world affairs and the hereafter." 
Ameen Ya Rabbal Alamiin

* LELAKI HARUS TAHU DELAPAN SIFAT ALAMI DARI WANITA * 1. Wanita suka Di Dengarkan . Jadi kalau dia sedang marah , dengarkan saja , kalau di ladeni tujuh hari tujuh malam dia tahan bertengkar 2. Wanita suka kelembutan , jangan sekali kali kasar pada wanita , karena wanita bisa menjadi lebih kasar 3. Wanita suka Diberi kejutan - kejutan kecil tidak harus memberikan emas berlian > kepada sang istri , cukup kecupan mesra di kening tapi penuh cinta dan lembut 4. Saat wanita berkata " Terserah " itu pertanda bahwa wanita ingin engkau memberikan kasih sayangmu sepenuhnya dengan pengertianmu .. 5. Berikan perhatian setiap saat , ketika tidur pun wanita ingin diperhatikan , ketersipuanya menandakan rasa senangnya diperhatikan
6. Always send tempting intimate words even though love words are used to, not for women, the words "I miss you dear", or "A day without hearing your voice I can go crazy", or "Only you make me crazy crazy " , is enough to make a woman 's heart soar to the seven heavens . Shaking the recesses of his soul, only women cover it with the words ", Ach lebay", Or, " Ich gombal baday dwech 7. When women say "It's okay" after you hurt them, then be prepared for the change because women don't like it about lies.. But touch women with true love, this love will make women give more love 8. Women are unique and special, when a woman's heart is hurt, she will not cry in front of you but she cries in her heart..

So understand every woman's nature because with you understand, then you will get happiness with her.. NOTE: Women's feelings are soft.. If you are hurt, it hurts. Especially if you get hurt . That's why women like to cry. They cry not because they cry, but they have more feelings...!! Women do lose physical strength to men, but men still lose heart strength to women. For those who are not married, hopefully you will get a partner who understands each other's strengths and weaknesses. Amen!



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